If you’re planning a move, you may have an overwhelming urge to throw all your possessions into cardboard boxes, tape them shut and think, “I’ll deal with this after moving!”

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We get it. But before you start dumping drawers into boxes, we implore you: Declutter first.

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There’s no better time to get rid of unnecessary stuff than right before a move. You’re in the right mindset—you’re open to change.

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Plus, you have to go though everything already, and if you follow through, you’ll start life at your new home with less junk and a stronger connection to the items you decided to hold onto before moving.

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Sounds great, but how do you do it?

1. Category by Category

Think about your past attempts to tidy up or simplify your physical space. Odds are you went about it room by room. Rookie mistake!

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For example, if you keep some dinner plates in the kitchen and others in the dining room, put them all together in one place before going through them and deciding what to keep. Same for clothes, books, athletic equipment and so on throughout the house.

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Don’t focus on what you’re discarding. Rather, focus on the things you are choosing to keep: This makes the process feel more positive.

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2. Handle Everything

Touch everything you own in order to determine if you truly want and need it.

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Take clothes, for example. It best to remove all your clothes from your closet and dresser, physically hold them and decide one-by-one if you want to keep each item.

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You might be tempted to just flip through your shirts as they hang in your closet.  You have to get everything out of its place to determine if you want it—and if it truly brings you joy.

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3. Find the Joy

This is a little touchy feely, but bear with us: A possession either “sparks joy,” or it doesn’t.

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It’s all about keeping the items that do offer that spark and getting rid of everything that doesn’t.  Does being surrounded by books you’ve never read bring you joy? Maybe not.

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Of course, the standard doesn’t work for each and every item in a household. A plunger isn’t likely to “spark joy”—but having one around is still a good idea.

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4. Make Moving an Event

Most people believe tidying is something you need to work at, something that requires upkeep. However, If you’re constantly tidying up, you’re probably doing it wrong.

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Instead of doing a little tidying up here and a little there whenever you have time, make your clean-up an event—something you spend a weekend doing with friends and family.

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Painful? Maybe. But you’re more likely to experience a significant and long-lasting change. Of course, you’ll still need to put stuff away, but the effort will be minimal.

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In short, think of it as a marathon that ends rather than daily sprints that go on and on and on.